If someone confides in you that they're experiencing family violence or are in an unsafe relationship, here are some resources to support them to stay safe. 

Safety Plan for Leaving

Safety Plan for After You Leave

Safety Plan for Staying

Relationship Check - Interactive

Relationship Check - PDF

If you are working with an adult who uses violence, you can refer them to our ReachOut service. 

For guidance on listening and talking with someone who has experienced violence see our advice for friends and family members.

Referral form for people experiencing violence

Sexual assault support referral form

Tamariki referral form

Rangatahi/youth referral form

ReachOut referral form - for people using, or at risk of using violence

Seuga referral form - for Pasifika people

Whānau Resilience referral form

Please email completed forms to referral@aviva.org.nz.

Below are PDFs with information which might be helpful for you and/or someone you are supporting.

Domestic Violence Act

Care of Children Act

Oranga Tamariki

Protection Orders

The Family Court

In April 2019, the New Zealand Government adopted the Domestic Violence Victims’ Protection Act. For information about what this means for employers, visit this page.